Lindsay advises on curfew and other dilemmas
Dear Lindsay,
I am a freshman and my parents have a really strict curfew for
me. They want me home by 9 p.m., even on weekends and that makes it
hard to go to the movies or hang out with my friends. What can I do
to stay out a little later?
-From Held Down
Lindsay advises on curfew and other dilemmas
Dear Lindsay,
I am a freshman and my parents have a really strict curfew for me. They want me home by 9 p.m., even on weekends and that makes it hard to go to the movies or hang out with my friends. What can I do to stay out a little later?
-From Held Down
Dear Held Down,
Usually when parents do this it’s a matter of trust. Let them know that now you are older, you are becoming more mature. Try to compromise with them so you can stay out. If you are going to the movies on a weekend, let them know when the movie will be over and make sure you have a ride home. As long as you present a full plan to them, they will be more lenient on where and what time you can go places.
Dear Lindsay,
Even though my sister and I have chores, she never does them and then I always get stuck doing the extra work. My parents never make her do anything. What can I do to keep from doing the extra chores?
-From Fed Up With Chores
Dear Fed Up,
You need to tell your parents that it is not your responsibility to pick up after your sister. You have already done your chores and she needs to learn about doing things herself and her own responsibilities. Let them know how you feel about it and that you are tired of it.
Dear Lindsay,
I think my younger sister is cutting class. I tried to talk to her about it, but she just got mad at me. Should I tell my parents about it?
-From Detects a Ditcher
Dear Detects a Ditcher,
You should definitely tell your parents. Not only is ditching bad, but it will end up affecting her grades as well. If she is ditching, your parents must know about it from the school. Let them know that her excuses are lame and that they need to talk to her.
Dear Lindsay,
I am thinking about trying out for a play at the San Benito Stage Company, but I’ve never done it before. Do you have any advice on preparing to audition or dealing with getting nervous?
-From Center Stage
Dear Center Stage,
I applaud you on taking the time to audition. I know that it is a very nerve-wracking experience. It’s all about mind over matter. Don’t pay attention to the little things. It is ok to be nervous but if you picture your audition going great, then it will. Prepare a song that you know you can sing. Do not try to bust out Christina Aguilera unless you know for certain you can nail it without yelling or straining your voice. Choose something that shows your personality. This can also be used for monologues if they have you prepare one. Make sure your monologue fits your age. If you are in middle school, don’t do a monologue about being in college. If they have you do a cold read, meaning they give you a script to read, take your time. Don’t try to rush. This should help you nail your audition.
