Holidays bring special relationship challenges
Dear Lindsay,
My family always has a get together on Christmas Eve, but I
really want to stop by my boyfriend’s house for his family
gathering, too. What should I do?
-Bah-Humbug
Holidays bring special relationship challenges
Dear Lindsay,
My family always has a get together on Christmas Eve, but I really want to stop by my boyfriend’s house for his family gathering, too. What should I do?
-Bah-Humbug
Dear Bah-Humbug,
The solution is very simple; it’s all about compromise. Go to your boyfriend’s get-together and hang out for a little bit. Then go to your family’s house in time for dinner, presents and whatever else it is you do. As long as you manage your time right, everything will run smoothly.
Dear Lindsay,
Are there any cool ways a high school kid can celebrate New Year’s Eve around here?
-New Year’s troubled
Dear New Year’s Troubled,
There are many things you can do. Many people have New Year’s parties. But the important thing is to be safe. New Year’s is a time where a lot of people do crazy things. Make sure you are always with a friend you trust. You could always have your own party as well. Have a few people over to watch the ball drop, with your parent’s permission of course. Nothing is better than bringing in the New Year with the people you care about.
Dear Lindsay,
My friend invited me to go skiing with her and her family, but I’ve never been before. I am totally scared of the idea of skiing for the first time. Any ideas on how to keep from freaking out?
-Scared to Ski
Dear Scared to Ski,
There is nothing to worry about. Your friend will not make you go down a huge hill all by yourself. I’m pretty sure she knows you’ve never done it before. Wherever you go, chances are there will be a place where someone could teach you. It’s always great to try new things. Just take baby steps. Who knows? You just might be a pro!
Dear Lindsay,
I am 16 and I really want to get an after-school job, but my mom won’t let me. How can I convince her that I can handle a job and my school work?
-Ready to Work
Dear Ready to Work,
To convince your mother, you must take on small responsibilities. Doing a lot more around the house and behaving could show that you are responsible enough. Being in high school and having a job can be stressful, which could put a lot of pressure on you. If your grades are good, you have to make sure that they don’t slip, otherwise, the job goes. Go job hunting together and make a compromise. As long as she’s comfortable with the job you have picked, then she’ll know you’re ready to take on being a working teen.
